Mel Gibson
So this may be overdue, but I wanted to comment on the whole Mel Gibson escapade. He made some pretty strong anti-Jewish ("Semitic" technically refers to Arabic people as well) comments after being pulled over drunk. As a result, a bunch of Hollywood has disowned him, he is losing business opportunities, and many have refused to forgive him in any way.
Here's my first problem with the whole thing: he was drunk. He was drunk, for goodness sake! His blood alcohol level was .12 at the police station, meaning he was a lot higher when he got in his car in the first place. Now, that's no excuse for what was said, but anyone who has been around anyone else who is drunk knows that *gasp* alcohol impairs your ability to reason. Emotions take over and things are said that aren't meant.
I think a more important issue at hand, though, is the self-righteous standard our culture has of public conduct, while simultaneously declaring "to each his own" - what's right for you is right for you. We leap at the first sign of corporate mistakes, but are afraid to say homosexuality is immoral. We condemn the tobacco industry, yet enact laws to keep pornography legal. We ridicule McDonald's for "making" us fat, yet use profanity in public without shame. We declare a celebrity dead because of a drunken rant, yet can't wait to hear the new gossip on celebrity divorces or extra-marital affairs. Our societal standards are upside down!
Now if Gibson had not apologized, my opinion would have been different. Yet, he gave a very humble and thorough apology. Those who are refusing to forgive him are bringing judgment on themselves. More importantly, though, our society is bringing judgment to itself in its distortion of true ethics, trading in the fight against true evil for the fight against fake evil.